Okay, so I’ve been diving deep into this whole astrology thing, and let me tell you, the North Node in Aries, South Node in Libra concept has been a real game-changer for me. It’s like, suddenly, things clicked, you know?
I started by, you know, just casually looking at my birth chart. I used this website. Anyway, I saw “North Node in Aries” and “South Node in Libra” and I was like, “Huh, what’s that all about?” So, I went down a total rabbit hole.
Digging into My Past (South Node in Libra)
The South Node is supposedly about your past life, your comfort zone, all that jazz. Mine’s in Libra, and boy, did that resonate. I’ve ALWAYS been a people-pleaser. I hate conflict. I’d bend over backward to make everyone happy, even if it meant totally screwing myself over. Seriously, I’d agree to stuff I didn’t even want to do, just to keep the peace.
I remember one time, I was planed a trip with friends. I let everyone else decide everything – the destination, the activities, even the food. I ended up on a trip that was totally not my style, eating stuff I wasn’t crazy about, all because I didn’t want to rock the boat. So typical Libra South Node, right?
Embracing My Destiny (North Node in Aries)
Then I started reading about the North Node. It’s supposed to be your destiny, what you’re meant to learn in this life. And mine’s in Aries. Aries is all about being independent, assertive, taking action, blah blah blah… basically the OPPOSITE of my Libra South Node tendencies.
At first, I was like, “No way, that’s not me.” But the more I thought about it, the more I realized I craved that kind of independence. I was tired of being a doormat. So, I decided to, you know, actually try to do something about it.
Putting It into Practice (Very Slowly)
It wasn’t easy. I started small. Like, really small.
- Saying “no” more often. This was HUGE. Even to little things, like, “No, I don’t want to watch that movie.” It felt weird at first, but it got easier.
- Speaking up for myself. Another tough one. I started voicing my opinions, even if they were different from everyone else’s. Baby steps, people!
- Making decisions on my own. This was scary. I mean, what if I made the wrong decision? But I started doing it, even with small stuff like choosing where to eat.
- Doing thing by myself. I’m used to do everything with accompany. I went to restaurant, shopping, even went to see a doctor by myself.
The Results (So Far)
Honestly? It’s been… liberating. It’s like I’m finally starting to become my own person. I still have moments where I slip back into my old people-pleasing ways, but I’m getting better at catching myself.
It’s not like I’ve suddenly become this super-assertive, fearless warrior. It’s more like I’m learning to stand up for myself, to prioritize my own needs, and to not be afraid to go after what I want. It’s a work in progress, for sure, but it feels pretty damn good.
So, yeah, that’s my North Node in Aries, South Node in Libra journey so far. Still figuring it all out, but I’m definitely moving in the right direction. If any of this resonates with you, maybe check out your own North Node. You might be surprised at what you discover!
