So, I’ve been messing around with this whole Chiron in Aries thing lately, and let me tell you, it’s been a wild ride. You know how sometimes you just feel like you’re not good enough, or like you can’t really speak your mind? Well, apparently, that’s where Chiron comes in – it’s like this astrological thing that represents our deepest wounds.
I started by figuring out where my Chiron is. I used some website to check out my birth chart. It’s pretty easy, you just punch in your birth time, date, and place, and boom, there it is. Mine’s in Aries, which, from what I gather, is all about identity and being assertive.
Once I knew where to look, I started digging deeper. I read up on what it means to have Chiron in Aries. It’s like, people with this placement are often independent and competitive, but they can also be super insecure and afraid to really express themselves. It’s a weird mix, right?
- I felt that. It described my habit of giving in to people.
- I researched. I was looking for ways to improve it.
- I tried. I wanted to see if I could get rid of this shit.
The first thing I tried was being more aware of my feelings. When I felt that familiar pang of inadequacy, I’d stop and ask myself, “Why am I feeling this way? What’s really going on?” It was tough at first, but after a while, I started to see patterns. I realized I was often putting other people’s needs before my own, which was leaving me feeling resentful and, well, wounded.
Then, I started practicing setting boundaries. This was even harder. I’m a people-pleaser by nature, so saying “no” to someone felt like a crime. But I pushed myself. I started small, declining invitations to things I didn’t really want to do, and gradually worked my way up to bigger things, like speaking up for myself in disagreements.
And you know what? It worked. Slowly but surely, I started to feel more confident. I started to trust my own judgment more. I realized that I do have valuable opinions and that I deserve to be heard. And those old feelings of inadequacy? They started to fade away.
The Big Realization
The biggest thing I learned through this whole process is that healing isn’t about fixing something that’s broken. It’s about accepting yourself, flaws and all. It’s about recognizing your own worth and learning to stand up for yourself. I also learned a lot about myself, my fears, and my strengths.
So, if you’re feeling lost or unsure of yourself, maybe take a look at your own Chiron placement. It might just give you some insights into your own personal journey of healing and self-discovery. Trust me, it’s worth it.
