Okay, so I’ve been digging into this whole astrology thing, and my North Node is in Libra. I was like, “What the heck does that even mean?” So I started looking into it. It’s been a pretty interesting journey, I gotta say.
My First Steps – Figuring it Out
First, I figured out my birth chart. I used some free online tool, I can’t remember which. Typed in my birthday, birthplace, and time – boom, there it was. North Node in Libra. My initial reaction was, “Cool…and?”
Then, I started reading. Everything I could find. Blogs, articles, some astrology books I borrowed from a friend… It was a lot of information to sift through. I quickly realized this wasn’t about predicting the future, but more about understanding myself better. It’s about personal growth, and finding my “true purpose,” whatever that means.
The Deep Dive – What It Means
Libra, from what I gathered, is all about balance, relationships, fairness, and harmony. And the North Node supposedly points to what you’re supposed to work on in this lifetime. My South Node, which is the opposite, is in Aries. That’s all about being independent, assertive, maybe a little selfish. So, the universe is basically telling me to chill out on the “me, me, me” and focus more on “us.”
Putting it into Practice – The Hard Part
This is where it got real. I started noticing my patterns. How often I jumped into things without considering other people’s perspectives. How quickly I got frustrated when things weren’t “fair” (according to me, of course). It was kinda embarrassing, to be honest.
- I started trying to listen more. Like, really listen. Not just waiting for my turn to talk.
- I practiced biting my tongue. Harder than it sounds!
- I made an effort to see things from other people’s points of view, even when I disagreed.
- I focused on compromise. In my relationships, at work, everywhere.
The Results (So Far…)
It’s been…interesting. I won’t lie, it’s not easy. Old habits die hard. But I’ve noticed some small changes. My relationships feel a little smoother. I’m not getting into as many arguments. I feel a bit more…peaceful? It’s a work in progress, for sure.

I’m still learning, still growing. I definitely don’t have all the answers. But this whole North Node in Libra thing has given me a framework, a direction to focus on. It’s like a little nudge from the universe, saying, “Hey, try this. It might just make your life a little better.” And honestly, who wouldn’t want that?